July 25, 2025

Learning

Listening well can move you, literally.

Photo by Dan Stretton, via CC 2.

Every human culture has words to describe the special, positive emotion associated with connection. Researchers recently named it "Kama Muta," a Sanskrit term meaning “moved by love.”

Kama Muta brings changes in the body and mind—like a warm feeling, a sense of closeness, a lump in the throat, or goosebumps. These reactions help deepen relationships and make experiences more meaningful.

Experts say Kama Muta happens when we see or take part in a sudden closeness between people. This could be a new romance, a reunion after a long time apart, or watching someone make a sacrifice for another.

Science is just starting to understand this powerful feeling of growing connection. One very clear finding is that active, nonjudgmental listening not only helps people feel heard and accepted, but can also move them emotionally, fostering the development and maintenance of close, supportive relationships.

Good listening skills strengthen relationships and foster meaningful, positive feelings. These effects benefit friendships, romantic, and workplace relationships by encouraging deeper sharing and greater closeness.

‍ARTICLE: Deep Listening Can Make You Feel More ‘Kama Muta’

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